My Child Is Bullied and the School Isn't Responding: What Can I Do?

What's happening

Your child with an Individualized Education Program (IEP) is experiencing bullying at school, and despite your concerns, the school hasn't taken appropriate action. This lack of response is understandably frustrating and concerning as it jeopardizes your child's well-being and ability to learn. It's crucial to understand how schools are generally expected to protect students with disabilities and address bullying proactively under federal guidelines.

Why it happens

Under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), schools are generally expected to provide a Free Appropriate Public Education (FAPE) to students with disabilities, which includes ensuring a safe learning environment. Unfortunately, systemic gaps or misunderstandings can lead to inadequate responses to bullying. Schools might focus on the general student body policies and overlook the specific needs outlined in your child's IEP. Sometimes, staff may require additional training or support to correctly implement interventions necessary to protect students with special needs effectively.

What parents should know

• Schools are generally expected to address bullying that impacts a child's access to FAPE. This includes modifying the IEP if necessary.
• You have the right to ask for an IEP meeting to discuss additional supports or changes in response to bullying.
• Document any incidents of bullying, including dates, times, and descriptions, and report them in writing to school officials.
• Under federal law, schools cannot ignore bullying that constitutes disability-based harassment.
• This is educational information, not legal advice. For specific situations, it's advisable to consult a qualified special education attorney or advocate.

What you can do next

1. Document each bullying incident with details to keep a consistent record.
2. Request an IEP meeting in writing to address bullying concerns and discuss potential revisions to your child’s IEP.
3. Bring your written documentation to the IEP meeting to support your child's case and assist in developing appropriate interventions.
4. Consider additional support or advocacy if the school's response continues to be inadequate.
5. Explore options like Positive Behavioral Interventions and Supports (PBIS) that could be part of your child’s revised IEP.

In summary

If you're feeling overwhelmed by the lack of school response to bullying, remember you're not alone. The most crucial step is to formally document and communicate your concerns through an IEP meeting request. To better understand your rights as a parent, the free Parent Rights tool can show you what options are available today. This journey may seem daunting, but with knowledge and advocacy, you can work towards ensuring a safe and supportive educational experience for your child.